“Not to Be Reproduced”, René Magritte, 1937

Meet Ellis

I used to believe my value came from how hard I worked.

My life was always about chasing the next goal, the next win, the next feeling of “enoughness”.

Then my body forced me to stop. I burned out.

It hit harder than I expected, and I was overcome with guilt over being unable to work. I didn’t know who I was without the constant striving.

It took years of learning how to undo years of conditioning about my self-worth, studying various philosophies, and learning my strengths to recover.

Recovering from this fast, unforgiving world taught me that slowing down isn’t the same as giving up; it’s what makes life sustainable. It’s what makes joy possible.

And feeling joy? That was unreal!

I Started Half Speed Ahead because

I wish I’d had someone to guide me through the 30 years of perfectionism and overachievement, someone who understood how to be driven and healthy.

I wish I’d had someone to guide my parents through the experience of having a gifted child.

I wish I’d had someone to point out that I was building my self-worth entirely on my academic career.

I wish I’d had someone to guide me through the years I spent in the corporate world — the land of late nights, endless emails, and invisible finish lines.

I wish I’d known earlier how to let go without losing my edge.

Now, my mission is simple:
To help high achievers overcome burnout and (re)learn what peace feels like.

If you’re tired of running on empty, and if you want to move forward, but differently this time, I’d love to talk.

Experience

Age my perfectionism began

Nervous Breakdowns

ACADEMIC DEGREES

Years in Corporate America

CUPS OF COFFEE

Why the Snailboat?

A snail – a slow, quiet creature with simple needs, sits on a boat just big enough for it to let the winds do most of the work. It carries all it needs within its shell. But it’s still on a voyage, and has places to be, and it needs to know how to alter its course to survive and thrive. 

It comes with no armor, no weapons, no ego. 

There is a certain peace that comes when we set aside our human tendency to conquer and let nature take its course.

Some call it surrendering. If that sounds relieving, take that word with you.

I prefer to think of it as a mixture of principles, mostly from Eastern philosophy, about

  • Trying less 
  • Slowing your pace and mindfully interacting with the here and now
  • Acceptance of life’s circumstances
  • Recognizing our small place in a grand Nature

This way of life is counter to the world that most of us live in, which pushes the values of speed, productivity, and data. Many of us feel jerked behind a Sea-Doo, unstable on our jet skis. We’re trying desperately to stay upright, our calls to the driver, “Slow down!” unheard. We’re seasick, and we wonder how we got here and how to get off the ride. 

If you feel this way, consider subscribing for free to my blog, where I’m building a community of people who need a reprieve. You’ll find lightly humorous content that addresses the Sea-Doo world we live in and gives meaningful advice and food for thought. 

And if you are burned out and need an action plan on how to restructure your life and thrive using a less chaotic approach, I’d love to speak with you personally. Book a no-pressure consultation with me using the button below.

Half speed ahead,

Ellis